TED演讲 :生命中最惨痛的时刻如何造就我们(1)

As a student of adversity, I've been struck over the years 我从逆境中学习：这些年来，我一次又一次 by how some people with major challenges 被人们如何从极大的挑战中 seem to draw strength from them, and I've heard the pop

TED演讲 :生命中最惨痛的时刻如何造就我们(2)

and you need to fold the worst events of your life 你必须把生命中最糟糕的时间， into a narrative of triumph, 揉搓成胜利的故事， evincing a better self 用更好的自己 in response to things that hurt. 来还击能伤害你的事

TED演讲 :生命中最惨痛的时刻如何造就我们(4)

We cannot bear a pointless torment, 我们不能承担无谓的痛苦， but we can endure great pain 但如果我们认定它是有意义的， if we believe that it's purposeful. 我们就能忍受巨大的痛苦。 Ease makes less of an impression

TED演讲 :生命中最惨痛的时刻如何造就我们(5)

And they went on and on, 他们滔滔不绝地说着， and the soldier watched, 而那名士兵看着他们， and then he sat there for a full minute 知道他们说完了之后， after they were finished 他坐在那里待了整整一分钟， an

TED演讲 :生命中最惨痛的时刻如何造就我们(6)

But if you banish the dragons, 但如果你驱逐了恶龙， you banish the heroes, 你也同时驱逐了英雄， and we become attached 而我们无法放下 to the heroic strain in our own lives. 我们生命中英雄的那一部分。 I've somet

TED演讲 :生命中最惨痛的时刻如何造就我们(7)

Gay rights are not primarily marriage rights, 同性恋权益不主要是婚姻权益， and for the millions who live in unaccepting places 而对数以百万生活在不包容 with no resources, 和缺少资源地方的人们， dignity remains elu

TED演讲 :生命中最惨痛的时刻如何造就我们(3)

Dr. Ma Thida, a leading human rights activist 马提达博士，一位人活跃的权运动领袖 who had nearly died in prison 曾经几乎丧命于狱中 and had spent many years in solitary confinement, 并在单独禁锢中度过多年， told me

TED演讲 :飞向海洋(2)

Well, it's the relative importance. 就是二者间的相对重要性。 You would say-yeah, yeah, yeah, we all know this;water covers twice the area of the planet than dry land. 也许你会说，是，是，是，我们都知道，地球上水覆盖的

TED演讲 :飞向海洋(3)

And then our mothers tell us, Careful you don't fall down, because you'll fall over. 然后母亲告诉我们，没有跌倒也要小心，因为你还会掉下来。 Now, go into the real atmosphere of this planet. 现在，进入这个行星真正的

TED演讲 :生命中最惨痛的时刻如何造就我们(8)

And I sometimes wonder 有时候我在想 whether I could have found such fulfillment 如果婚姻和孩子 in marriage and children 来得更容易些， if they'd come more readily, 我是否会找到这样的满足， if I'd been straight in my yo

TED演讲 :老兵为何恋战(1)

I'm going to ask and try to answer, 接下来我会问一些而且也会回答一些。 in some ways, kind of an uncomfortable question. 令人感到不太舒服的问题。 Both civilians, obviously, and soldiers, 很显然，不管是老百姓还是士

TED演讲 :老兵为何恋战(2)

It was named after the platoon medic. 这曾是一个野战排医疗兵的名字。 that had been killed about two months into the deployment. 他在战地工作两个月后就牺牲了。 It was a few plywood B-huts 所谓的哨站就是几个胶合板

TED演讲 :老兵为何恋战(4)

And he thought about it quite a long time, 他想了很久。 and finally he said, Ma'am, I miss almost all of it. 最后说：太太，我怀念那里所有的一切。。 And he's one of the most traumatized people I've seen from that war. 他是我见

TED演讲 :老兵为何恋战(5)

He remembers people saying, as he was sort of half-conscious, he remembers people saying, Steiner's been hit in the head. Steiner's dead. 他记得。在他处于半清醒状态时听到人们说：斯坦纳被射中了头部。斯坦纳死了。 And

TED演讲:谈魅力(1)

He remembers people saying, as he was sort of half-conscious, he remembers people saying, Steiner's been hit in the head. Steiner's dead. 他记得。在他处于半清醒状态时听到人们说：斯坦纳被射中了头部。斯坦纳死了。 And

TED演讲 :谈魅力(2)

Well of course, in the 20th century,glamour came to have this different meaning associated with Hollywood. 当然，在20世纪，魅力开始和好莱坞联系在一起从而拥有了各种不同的含义。 And this is Hedy Lamarr. 这是Hedy Lamar

TED演讲:谈魅力(3)

Mel Gibson's Passion Of The Christ not glamorous. Mel Gibson的耶稣受难记不属于这类范畴。 That's glamour: 这就是魅力。 that's Michelangelo's Pieta, where Mary is the same age as Jesus and they're both awfully happy and pleasant. 这是

TED演讲:谈魅力(4)

And sprezzatura is the art that conceals art. sprezzatura. 是那种浑然天成的艺术。 It makes things look effortless. 它使得事物简约易懂。 You don't think about how Nicole Kidman is maneuvering that dress she just looks completely n

TED演讲:谈魅力(5)

And the way we deal with that is we displace them we put them into a golden world, an imagined world,an age of heroes, the world to come. 而我们处理它的方式就是将其替换掉我们将其放入到流金岁月，幻想的世界中，即将到

TED演讲 :谈魅力(6)

This is from Triumph Of The Will brilliant editing to cut together things. 这个是来自电影意志的胜利剪辑的工作做的非常棒。 There's a glamour shot. 这个快照很赞。 National Socialism is all about glamour. 纳粹主义和魔力