I learned something today, she said. 我今天学到了一些东西。她说。 What? I asked, feeling good, as I figured she was about to tell me how my words had touched her. 我感觉良好地问她学到了什么,以为她会称赞我的讲话有

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He was very supportive of Vicki's career and used to urge her to bill like a boy. 他很支持维姬的事业,总是鼓励她像个男人一样去要账。 His view was that the men considered any time they spent thinking about an issueeven time in

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This put me ahead of First Lady Michelle Obama and Indian politician Sonia Gandhi. Absurd. 而且,我居然排在米歇尔奥巴马和索尼娅甘地的前面,这太荒谬了。 My own mother called to say, Well, dear, I do think you are very pow

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I know that my success comes from hard work, help from others, and being at the right place at the right time. 我知道,我的成功来自于勤奋的工作、他人的帮助以及在正确的时间站在了正确的地方。 I feel a deep and end

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Chapter 3 Success and Likeability 第3章 要成功,也要受欢迎 Okay, so all a woman has to do is ignore society's expectations, be ambitious, sit at the table, work hard, and then it's smooth sailing all the way. 好吧,如果一个女人要做

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This experiment supports what research has already clearly shown: 这项实验支持了根据海蒂案例研究得出的明确结论: success and likeability are positively correlated for men and negatively correlated for women. 对男性来说,成

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Most women have never heard of the Heidi/Howard study. 大多数女性从未听说过海蒂/霍华德研究, Most of us are never told about this downside of achievement. 我们中的大多数人也从未听说过这项研究的负面结果。 Stil

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Unlike the other six winners, I didn't let my award status become general knowledge. 我没像那6个男生一样将自己的荣誉大肆炫耀, I told only my closest friend, Stephen Paul, and knew he would keep my secret. 我只告诉了自己最亲

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向前一步(MP3+中英字幕):第55期 要成功 也要受欢迎(6)Years later, when I learned about the Heidi/Howard case study, I understood the reason why. 多年后,当我了解霍华德/海蒂案例后,终于明白了这是为什么。 Bein

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I never really thought about why I went to such efforts to mute my achievements from such a young age. 我从没真正想过,为什么我在这么年轻时,就会如此努力地隐藏自己的成就。 Then, about ten years after I graduated from

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Nothing has changed since high school; intelligence and success are not clear paths to popularity at any age. 自打我读高中以后,一切都没有改变,智慧和成功对于任何年龄的女人来说都不是受人欢迎的主要因素。 T

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Owning one's success is key to achieving more success. 真正认同自己的成功,对于实现更大的成功至关重要。 Professional advancement depends upon people believing that an employee is contributing to good results. 职场成就取决于

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Because of these unfair expectations, women find themselves in damned if they do and doomed if they don't situations. 由于这些不公平的期待,女性发现自己处于如果做就会烦恼和不做注定会更糟的两难境地。 This is esp

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Truth is also better served by using simple language. 简洁的语言也有助于真实想法的表达。 Office-speak often contains nuances and parentheticals that can bury not just the lead but the entire point. 办公语言在措辞上常有的细微

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Eventually, she got frustrated and just blurted out, My manager is bad! 最后这位女员工很挫败地脱口而出:我的经理很坏! She was still speaking Chinese, but simply enough that Mark understood. 说的还是中文,但足够简单,

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I love hearing my son explain to my daughter, I'm sorry you're upset because you lost at Monopoly, but I'm older than you so I should win. 我很乐意听到我的儿子对他妹妹解释:我很抱歉看到你因为输了大富翁游戏而不高兴,

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About ten senior staffers were sitting at the table when we entered. 我们走进会议室时,已经有十几位高级职员坐在桌前了。 Since I knew nothing about the topic, I took a seat in the back corner of the room (yup, not even close t

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This got repeated as Rubin likes gold, and someone spent millions of dollars to please the new boss. 这句话经过多次转述后被演绎成了鲁宾对黄金感兴趣。随后,就有人打算花费数百万美元来取悦这位新老板。 More

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I got onstage in front of our entire sales team and apologized for the misunderstanding. 于是,我召集整个销售团队,当着大家的面为这次误会道歉。 I also let them know that if they hear a bad idea, even one they believe is com

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One day, she and I hosted a tricky client meeting. 有一天,我们一起主持一个有点儿棘手的客户会议, She navigated the discussion effectively, and after the clients left, I praised her effort. 期间她准确、高效地引导了讨

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