向前一步:第92期 如何找到你的人生导师(6)

These three, among so many others, have encouraged me, made introductions, and taught me by example. 这三位，还有其他许多人，都曾给我以鼓励，为我引介别人，并以身作则地教导我。 Their wisdom helped me avoid mistakes

向前一步:第93期 如何找到你的人生导师(7)

Given this, I believe we have sent the wrong message to young women. 考虑到这一点，我认为我们向年轻女性传达了错误的讯息， We need to stop telling them, Get a mentor and you will excel. 事实上不是找个导师你就能变得

向前一步:第94期 如何找到你的人生导师(8)

He wanted to meet with me and made it clear that he only needed a few minutes of my time to ask for introductions to some people who could help expand his organization. 他明确地说只是占用我几分钟时间，希望我能介绍他认识某位能

向前一步:第95期 如何找到你的人生导师(9)

The mentee may receive more direct assistance, 被指导者得到的帮助更直接， but the mentor receives benefits too, including useful information, greater commitment from colleagues, and a sense of fulfillment and pride. 包括得到有用的信

向前一步:第96期 如何找到你的人生导师(10)

Rather than just submitting his section, Justin took the initiative to pull the group together and integrate all the ideas. 这时，贾斯廷并没有单纯提出自己的意见，而是主动召集团队成员，整合了大家的想法。 I have b

向前一步:第98期 如何找到你的人生导师(12)

And since there are already a reduced number of women in leadership roles, 而领导者中的女性数量目前还很少， it is not possible for the junior women to get enough support unless senior men jump in too. 除非男性高层管理者一视同

向前一步:第99期 如何找到你的人生导师(13)

Junior women and senior men often avoid engaging in mentoring or sponsoring relationships out of fear of what others might think. 在职场上，资历较浅的女性和资历较深的男性常因顾忌他人的眼光而避免建立指导或赞助的关

向前一步:第100期 如何找到你的人生导师(14)

At Goldman Sachs in the late 1990s, management committee partner Bob Steel recognized this perception problem and came up with an admirable solution. 20世纪90年代末，高盛公司管理委员会的合伙人鲍勃斯蒂尔不仅意识到了这个问

向前一步:第101期 如何找到你的人生导师(15)

The most effective formal programs help educate men about the need to mentor women and establish guidelines for appropriate behavior. 有效的项目还能教会男性如何去指导女性，并建立相应的行为准则。 These programs can be a g

向前一步:第102期 如何找到你的人生导师(16)

The company operated by moving quickly and tolerating mistakes, 当时公司的运作依靠行动快速、容忍错误的模式。 and lots of people were nervous that I would not just ruin the party, but squash innovation. 许多人都心情紧张，担

向前一步:第103期 如何找到你的人生导师(17)

As an associate at McKinsey Company, my first assignment was on a team that consisted of a male senior engagement manager (SEM) 在麦肯锡公司工作时，我所在的团队里有一位男性高级项目经理， and two other male associates, Abe

向前一步:第104期 如何找到你的人生导师(18)

How could I get my clients to take me seriously if their boss was constantly reminding everyone that I was his son's ageoh, and that I should date him? 如果客户们老是听到自己的老板提到我和他儿子同岁（噢，所以我还应该跟他

向前一步:第91期 如何找到你的人生导师(5)

One recent study shows that men are significantly more likely than women to be sponsored and that those with sponsors are more satisfied with their rates of advancement. 最近一项研究表明，男性比女性更有可能获得赞助，而那些获得

向前一步:第75期 职业生涯中的长远梦想及短期目标(7)

I returned to D C. with a plan to attend law school, 当我返回华盛顿后，原计划去上法学院， but Lant Pritchett, an economist in Larry's office who has devoted his life to the study of poverty, persuaded me that business school would b

向前一步:第76期 职业生涯中的长远梦想及短期目标(8)

I also ran point on some smaller projects, including the administration's proposal to promote the development of vaccines for infectious diseases. 我还负责一些小型项目，包括推动传染病疫苗开发的提案等工作。 During my four

向前一步:第77期 职业生涯中的长远梦想及短期目标(9)

It would have been so cool to have thanked her for being honest and walked out of her office. 如果当时我先对她的坦诚表示感谢，然后大步迈出她的办公室，那肯定很酷。 But alas, I was never cool. I sat there hemming and h

向前一步:第78期 职业生涯中的长远梦想及短期目标(10)

Not only was the role lower in level than my other options, but it was entirely unclear what the job was in the first place. 这份工作不仅级别比其他职位低，更重要的是我连这份工作的内容是什么都不清楚。 Eric responde

向前一步:第79期 职业生涯中的长远梦想及短期目标(11)

Those in more established industries can look for the rocket ships within their companiesdivisions or teams that are expanding. 成熟的行业可以在其企业内部寻找火箭，即正在扩张的部门或是团队； And in careers like teaching

向前一步:第80期 职业生涯中的长远梦想及短期目标(12)

Second, I try to set more personal goals for learning new skills in the next eighteen months. 其次，我会试着在接下来的18个月里，为自己设定更多有关新技能的学习目标。 It's often painful, but I ask myself, How can I imp

向前一步:第81期 职业生涯中的长远梦想及短期目标(13)

In that first deal, I said too much. 在第一次谈判中，我说得太多了。 This was not a shock to anyone who knows me. Once I identified this weakness, I sought help to correct it. 了解我的人都会见怪不怪。当我意识到这个缺点