美国文化脱口秀 第381期:美国人的分手和离婚

 　　其实不是特别想说王宝强离婚。但有不少听众问美国人的离婚也会变成全民大戏吗？反过来想想，探讨中美文化和思想，也是我们节目的特色。不过，感情、婚姻只有当事人清楚。所以我们今天就把焦点放在相关的英语上吧！也能学到不少！

　　关键词：
　　明星离婚不该成为全民大戏
　　Lots of high-profile celebrities 1 are breaking up recently: 最近不少有名的明星闹分手、闹离婚
　　Millions of Chinese people are following Wang Baoqiang's divorce drama unfold: 中国好多人都在追王宝强的离婚大戏发展
　　It's unfortunate since so many Olympian athletes are currently pouring out their blood, sweat and tears in Rio: 其实挺悲哀的，运动员在里约奥运拼搏自己的血泪汗水，但媒体都是王宝强的事儿
　　分手、离婚，有人撕破脸、有人相对和平
　　两败俱伤、鸡飞狗跳：
　　nasty breakup: 两败俱伤的分手
　　ugly breakup: 闹得很不好看、丑陋的分手
　　维持和平、友好：
　　amicable 2 breakup: 和平分手
　　分手、离婚英语怎么说？
　　Breakup, split up: 分手、分开
　　You can use these 2 words for both married and unmarried couples: 这两个词无论恋爱分手、还是离婚，都可以用
　　Divorce: 离婚
　　When couples are separated, it means they're still legally married but living apart from each other: 结婚的人分居，虽然法律上还是夫妻，但是事实上已经分居
　　Some people work it out during this period of separation: 有些人分开的这段时间，可以解决、化解矛盾
　　They've worked it out/worked things out: 解决、化解矛盾
　　If they can't work it out, they'll file for divorce: 如果不行，就提出离婚
　　外遇、出轨
　　Wang Baoqiang is accusing his wife of cheating on him with his agent: 王宝强控诉太太和经纪人出轨、外遇
　　cheating on someone: 欺骗另一半，指出轨、有外遇
　　(cheating on a test): 考试作弊
　　Two-timing：脚踏两条船，但是这个说法比较过时
　　unfaithful: 不忠
　　someone is caught cheating: 被捉奸
　　gossipy: 很八卦
　　各执一词，He said/she said
　　It's a "he said she said" situation/it's all "he said she said" : 男女双方各执一词
　　No one knows what goes on in a marriage and no one will ever know: 婚姻的事，外人怎么搞得清？
　　美国人的分手和离婚
　　美国人最关心的明星离婚: Johnny Depp
　　美国近来也有一对明星离婚闹得沸沸扬扬。就是大明星，《加勒比海盗》系列男主Johnny Depp和小自己十几岁的明星嫩妻Amber 3 Heard。女方控诉男方家暴，男方也控诉女方各种不是。
　　Johnny Depp and his young wife, Amber Heard, are going through a nasty divorce: Johnny Depp和嫩妻Amber Heard离婚也闹得很凶
　　She's accusing him of domestic abuse/domestic violence: 女方控诉男方家暴
　　One meaning of domestic is within the country: 说到航班，domestic有一个意思是国内，例如domestic flights, 国内航班
　　Domestic can also mean within a marriage or home: domestic还有个意思是家庭内部的
　　domestic abuse/domestic violence：家庭暴力
　　domestic abuser or abuser: 实施家暴那方
　　It's inexcusable: 这是不可饶恕的
　　wifebeater: 打老婆的男人 （口语）
　　不过wifebeater还有一个意思，就是男士背心
　　It comes from the stereotype 4 that this is the kind of clothes that a wifebeater wears: 这来自于一种偏见，打老婆的人会穿这种背心
　　But it's not a very nice word in everyday use: 这个词不太适合日常形容背心时用
　　友好分手: On good terms
　　分手离婚后也有关系处得好的：
　　leave on good terms: 分开时，还挺友好，
　　break up on good terms: 同上
　　We're still on good terms: 我们现在关系还不错
　　mutual 5 decision, mutual breakup: 分手是双方一致的决定
　　狗仔队
　　Gossip magazines: 八卦杂志
　　paparazzi: 狗仔
　　TMZ is a huge paparazzi machine in the US: TMZ是美国最有名（或臭名昭著)的八卦机器
　　Leak info: 爆料
　　A video was leaked to TMZ of Johnny Depp throwing a tantrum in front of his wife at home: 有人向TMZ泄露了德普在家对老婆大发雷霆的视频
　　摩登家庭: Uncouple, Coparent
　　不是所有分手、离婚都闹得鸡飞狗跳，奥斯卡影后Gwenyth Paltrow和Cold Play主唱Chris Martin的离婚就被视为典范。两人的声明还造就了英语金句。
　　Gwenyth Paltrow and Chris Martin issued a joint 6 statement that stated, "We consciouslyuncouple, but we coparent": Gwenyth Paltrow和Chris Martin分开时发的联合声明其中说到”我们深思熟虑后选择分开，但还要一起做父母养育孩子”
　　Many people laughed at their choice of words, but it's a good attitude: 虽然很多人觉得他们的用词太矫情，但是态度却值得称赞
　　有couple, 还有uncouple
　　uncouple, decouple (动词): 分开，不再是一对
　　to parent （动词）: 抚养孩子、尽父母的责任
　　parent is both a noun and a verb: parent既是名词也是动词
　　To coparent is to work to raise your children together despite being divorced: coparent就是即使离婚了、分开了，还是要一起做父母
　　是啊，分手、离婚，冷暖自知。孩子始终是第一位的。