如何获得一份真正的友谊
时间：2019-02-16 作者：英语课 分类：英语听力广播—Listening
英语课
【原文】
Friends and valuative--On Making FriendsEveryone needs friends,and if you fail to make friends,you should examine yourself and see if there is something wrong with your personality.
May be you have social faults such as snobbishness,talkativeness and using slang 1 etc. which drive away your new acquaintances 2.Whatever your social faults may be,look at them honestly and make real effort to correct them.
To be friendly you must feel friendly.Cheerfulness is the basis of friendliness 3.A cheerful people smiles.A smile is a magnet 4 which draws people.Smile at someone and you are almost sure to get a smile in return.
A friendly person does his best to make a stranger feel at home,wherever he happens to be.Put yourself in the other fellow's place and make them feel welcome.
Try to remember names.It makes your new acquaintances feel happy when you call them by their names.It gives them the feeling that they have made an impression on you and that mean something to them because you remember them.
If you don't agree with other people on a certain matter,you should appear to be friendly.Don't argue,but discuss.You always lose friends if you argue too much.
A friendly person thinks of others,and doesn't insist on his own "rights".People who refuse to consider others have few friends.
Finally,don't treat people only according to their social positions.Really friendly people respect everyone at all times.
n.俚语，行话；vt.使用俚语，辱骂；vi.辱骂
- The phrase is labelled as slang in the dictionary.这个短语在这本字典里被注为俚语。
- Slang often goes in and out of fashion quickly.俚语往往很快风行起来又很快不再风行了。
n.相识的人( acquaintance的名词复数 )；熟人；对…有了解；（与某人）认识
- Claire has a wide circle of friends and acquaintances . 克莱尔交游很广。
- We are the casual acquaintances of a long railway journey. 我们是在火车长途旅行中相识的朋友。 来自《现代汉英综合大词典》
n.友谊，亲切，亲密
- Behind the mask of friendliness,I know he really dislikes me.在友善的面具后面，我知道他其实并不喜欢我。
- His manner was a blend of friendliness and respect.他的态度友善且毕恭毕敬。