Men are the weaker sex

    Yvonne: This is 6 Minute English, I'm Yvonne Archer 1 - and I’ve been joined by Rob.

    Hello Rob!

    Rob: Hello Yvonne.

    Yvonne: Now Rob, you may not know this, but experts say that men are the weaker sex.

    Can you explain that term for us please, ‘the weaker sex’?

    Rob: Well I'll try! Now traditionally, women are generally known as ‘the weakersex’ – so they’re not as strong as men and need to be protected. But in terms ofhealth, women are the strong, healthy ones - so, men are supposedly the weakersex.

    Yvonne: Now it's time for today’s question! Rob, compared with the early 1960s, eachyear, the number of men who enter medical schools in the UK has doubled. Buthow many women enter medical school each year?

    a) About the same numberb) Triple the number - orc) Ten-foldRob: Hmm… that's a tricky 2 one. I would probably say about the same number.

    6 Minute English ? bbclearningenglish.com 2010Page 2 of 5Yvonne: Mmm…as usual, we’ll find out the correct answer later on. So, why are menthe weaker sex in terms of health? Writer, Doug Devaney told the BBC’sBreakfast television programme how he started taking tablets for angina – atype of heart condition. But unfortunately, Doug was still getting chest painsand a few days later, he collapsed 3 in the street.

    Extract 1: Doug Devaney15 minutes later after the fact of the initial attack, I thought: 'Oh well, I've got throughthat' and so forth 4. I went off and carried on my business as usual. But then I realisedafter a while that I couldn't run for the bus or anything like that. So I just thought:

    'Well - I've already been there; I don't want to be a fuss, I don't want to be a burden.'

    Rob: Wow – just 15 minutes later, it was ‘business as usual’ for Doug; he carriedon doing what he usually does. Doug should have gone back to the hospitalwhen he was still getting pains in his chest - but he didn't. Shocking!

    Yvonne: Definitely – and that helps to explain why men are the weaker sex. They find itdifficult to ask for medical help when they need it, which can be dangerous.

    For example, Rob, did you know that men are more likely than women to getcancer and die from it - and they’re more likely to commit suicide?

    Rob: Hmm…no, I didn't know that. That's really shocking.

    Yvonne: And sad too. So if more men ask for medical attention, more lives could besaved. But did you catch the reasons Doug Devaney gave for not going back tothe hospital, Rob?

    6 Minute English ? bbclearningenglish.com 2010Page 3 of 5Rob: Yes, he said he ‘didn’t want to be a fuss’ – so he didn’t want to draw anyattention to himself. Or we can also say: ‘he didn’t want to make a fuss’.

    Yvonne: He also said he ‘didn’t want to be a burden’.

    Rob: No, he didn't want to be a nuisance, a bother – to use up anyone’s time andmake them feel like they were responsible for looking after him. Doug didn’twant to be ‘a burden’.

    Yvonne: Of course, doctors are there to look after us. We’re not a burden to them evenif, like men, many of our illnesses are caused by lifestyle choices. Rob, whatare 'lifestyle choices'?

    Rob: Well, these are things we choose to do in life - such as drinking and smokingtoo much, an unhealthy diet maybe, or not getting enough exercise. Those areall 'lifestyle choices'.

    Yvonne: Mmm…now, as men tend to work more hours than women, it can be moredifficult – or harder for them to ask for the help they need – and get to doctors'

    appointments. But are there other reasons why they don't? Peter Baker 5 is ChiefExecutive of the charity, The Men’s Health Forum 6. And Peter has a possibleanswer for us.

    6 Minute English ? bbclearningenglish.com 2010Page 4 of 5Extract 2: Peter Baker, Chief Executive, The Men’s Health ForumI think men are still stuck in the attitude: they mustn't admit there's something wrongwith them. They mustn't show weakness, admit a vulnerability. And I think this makesit much harder for them to ask for help from a doctor or another health professional.

    Yvonne: So men have an attitude – a way of thinking - that they just won't change.

    They're 'stuck' in their attitude which makes it harder for them to ask formedical help.

    Rob: Experts say that we men believe we mustn't let other people know – we mustn'tadmit – that there's something wrong with us. And Doug's story shows us howdangerous it can be.

    Yvonne: Exactly. Peter Baker says that men believe they mustn't show weakness or‘vulnerability’ – but can you explain what is meant by 'vulnerability', Rob?

    Rob: Yes, if you're 'vulnerable', you're not at your best. Perhaps you're easily hurt,either physically 7 because you're ill, or emotionally because, for example, you'renot feeling particularly happy. And men don't like to show that they'revulnerable – they don't like to show their 'vulnerability'.

    Yvonne: So, what can be done to change this situation where men are now the weakersex when it comes to health? Here’s Peter Baker again with two suggestions.

    Extract 3: Peter Baker, Chief Executive, The Men’s Health ForumI think we've got to do two things: we've got to educate men, change men's attitudes,make them more aware. But we've also got to make the system much more accessible.

    6 Minute English ? bbclearningenglish.com 2010Page 5 of 5Yvonne: So, the medical system needs to be easier to use – it needs to be 'moreaccessible', and men need to be made more aware.

    Rob: Yes, men need help to understand more about when it's really important forthem to get medical help and why, even if the problem was caused by lifestylechoices.

    Yvonne: Absolutely! Now earlier Rob, I asked: since the early 1960s, how manywomen enter medical school each year?

    Rob: And I said: about the same number.

    Yvonne: It's actually ten-fold.

    Rob: Wow – that is a lot!

    Yvonne: It is… but that's all for today's "6 Minute English".

    Both: Goodbye!